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Standing in the Gap for Those in Need: My Review of HillBilly Elegy

I just finished reading a book called “Hillbilly Elegy” by JD Vance.

What I liked about this book:

So many striking themes from my own family of origin:

poverty, dysfunctional family relationships, addiction, alcoholism, abuse, vulnerability.

It is also personally interesting to me that, like me, JD Vance also ended up graduating from high school, then college, then law school and became a lawyer, beating the odds of those family members that raised him (or failed to raise him).

For those who grew up in middle/upper class families, it is an eye-opening insight into a large segment of our culture lives.

Two key take away points for me from this book:

  1. People Become Homeless Due To Lack of Community.

At Mel Trotter Ministries, we often point to the quote in this photo as one of the primary factors for homelessness.

JD’s book confirmed that fact to me, in his own experiences.

In short, if its because of a lack of community that people tend to enter into homelessness, community needs to be part of what gets them out.

We need to do a better job of being community to the most vulnerable people in our own community, wherever that is.

2. Do Not Underestimate the Impact You can Make in a Child’s Life.

For the last 5 years I have spent every Thursday during the school year mentoring an elementary school-aged boy.

These boys, in large part, suffer from the same tragedies:
poverty, dysfunctional family relationships, addiction, alcoholism, abuse, vulnerability.

I can’t think of a better use of my time – one hour a week than spending it telling a kid that he is valued – he has what it takes – who may not hear that from any other place.

As a kid, I remember being desperate to hear such words from an adult.

“You have What it Takes”

Imagine if all of the struggling students in our local communities had adults who were consistently showing up in their lives telling them:

“You have What it Takes”

My call to you, go be that person in the life of some vulnerable kid today.

Questions? Comments?

E-mail: Jeshua@dwlawpc.com

http://www.dwlawpc.com

Twitter: @JeshuaTLauka

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